Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Setting and Reaching Goals

Hello Everyone!

Yes, it has been another long-hard week. Our goal was to meet all the recent converts and visit with them to see how their doing, keep them encouraged and keep them coming to church. Sadly, almost all of them are inactive now and going to other churches already. The fellowshipping of the converts is really most important. That is the thing I don't get all the active members of the wards are all converts so they know how it feels to be a new member. We have a lot of work to do!

We taught 30 lessons this week but no investigators will take the challenge to be baptized :/ They are stubborn in their currents religion and beliefs.

This week is the 30th Anniversary of the Nicaraguan Revolution and the Sandinista National Liberation Front so it has been pretty crazy with riots, screaming-drunk people in the streets, so that has been fun. On Sunday, we were in a part of the city that is more dangerous, because the men carry machetes and are usually drunk. We had a drunk man stop us to talk, in the mean time another drunk man came up behind me and put his hand in my pants back pocket, hoping to rob me. All I had in the pocket was a handkerchief, so when he realizes I have no wallet he tries to run away but I tripped him and he stumbled. Next thing we see is the drunk we were talking too starts beating up the drunk who fell down, so we just kind of walked away...:P

It has rained almost everyday this week so it is muggy and muddy. But I am trying to do what Jeffery R. Holland said in his talk to us at the MTC...support the good times and the bad times and just laugh about it. :)

I thank all of you for love and support to me. Thank you Dad for you letter, it has helped me out a ton!

I love you all!

Elder Buck

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

A Much Better Week!

Elder Alonso from Guatemala
They grow big caterpillars here!
The lush green countryside.
Pineapple field - they do not grow on trees! LOL
Julio, church member

Hola mi Familia!

Thank you so much for all of your love and support and your letters!

Carly, I first want to start with answering your letter. That is an awesome dream you had and that is an awesome way to think of the Savior. Carly you’re going to do awesome, your spirit is so strong, and you’re a hard worker in school. You keep it up. I love you. You keep doing everything your doing, listen to Mom and Dad they know what’s best for us. If anything I have learned, in these 5 months I have been out, is how kind, loving and supportive our parents are.

Thank you again for all your love and advice! This week has been a lot better, still having a real hard time with our investigators but I love being here. I have been in Nicaragua for 3 months and I can pretty much understand what everyone is saying and they can understand what I’m saying (finally!!) ha-ha

Oh it was so cool yesterday, we were over at the house of Familia Moya. They have a huge family but the mom she goes to church every Sunday and knows a lot but doesn’t want to be baptized. :/ She has 3 children who are baptized Geovany, Scarlet, and Henry. They are awesome, Scarlet is inactive right now but I found away to get her interested again in the church. Okay, so you know how I love spelling bee stuff. Ha-ha, it’s even funnier in Spanish. Since I know the Spanish alphabet I can spell the words, so yesterday we were over at their house only visiting. It was the Mom, Geovany and Scarlet, my companion and I. Before when we visited, I never really talked so they were kind of surprised when I started talking in Spanish. I was asking them questions of what they like to do to find out what we could do for family home evening next week. The mom was kind of interested in family home evening - not really, and Scarlet didn’t even want to do it. When I asked her what she likes to do she said "deletrear" which means to-spell and I was like "Oh cool, spell the word "dispensacion" which is dispensation. She spelled the word quickly and so I gave her a harder one. Then I told her I like to spell words too, so she gave me a word to spell and I did it quickly so they were really surprised. Ha-ha

Then we were having this completion with a list of words to spell and I got all of them right. I suggested "Hey, we should do a game next week for Noche de Hograr (family home evening)” and she was excited for that. I thought that was awesome, because during the spelling bee her whole family gathered around us to listen and watch us. They all want to participate next Monday night which is awesome cuz they didn’t want to participate before! I’m excited for next week!

Yesterday, Monday, was amazing we went to this awesome area outside of Managua. In a place called Jinotepe which is Beautiful. It’s so green and its how I imagined Nicaragua, I have included the pictures. We had a guide his name was Julio he’s really cool and a member of the church. That was awesome, we climbed this gigantic mountain, ate wild pineapple from the bush (ha-ha I thought pineapple grew on palm trees :P and watched the wild monkeys in the trees. It was amazing and the weather is perfect!

After the hike I got a haircut from a lady who is a member and she hacked the crap out of my hair ha-ha so I need to get it fixed. But that’s all the time I have, thank you again for everything, I love you all!

Elder Buck
p.s. HAPPY BIRTHDAY KENDAL!

Monday, July 13, 2009

The Reality is Sinking In...

Wow! I have been in the mission field for 5 months now. Crazy how fast time goes by. Yeah, I have to admitt I was a little discouraged in my last letter and this week didn't exactly go the way I throught it would either. I am struggling right now, I really try not to get discouraged so I don't feel worthless or I'm not doing enough. I guess it is Satan working on me with negative thoughts. Grrr...I'm mad at myself right now, I want to improve and I pray for help and forgiveness for shortcomings but I still feel like I'm a failure. I'm lost right now. I do get along well with my companion,he is awesome, he is always smiling and positive, I guess I should learn some things from him.

I am really feeling the physical challenges of walking 10-15 miles each day in the heat and humidity, I am pretty exhausted by the afternoon and my legs are weak which makes it hard to walk.

The familia Correa will not be getting baptized at this time. We have worked hard with them this week but they have some habits to stop and committments to make before they are ready. We have made other contacts this week but nobody is progressing at the moment.

Every week we have investigators who say they will go to church with us on Sunday so every Sunday we wake up and, eat breakfast, and go to all of our investigators houses to take them to church with us. But by Sunday morning they all have an excuse why they cannot go with us that day.

Monson is almost ready to leave for the MTC, I wish I could write to him so please tell him congratulations for me! Happy Birthday Kendal, and Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad.

I love all of you ... always!

Elder Buck

p.s. Note from Sandra: If anyone reading this post has had discouragement while serving a mission or other church calling, your positive feedback, personal experiences about how you endured or overcame your challenges could be emailed to Elder Buck. His email address is in the right hand column.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

A So-So Week

Okay before I start writing, YES DAD I DID GET TO SEE THE PICTURES, THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR PUTTING UP THAT WEBSITE FOR ME! ha-ha

Buenos, it has been a pretty good week. My companion is from Guatemala and he is AWESOME, literally it is a blessing to be serving with him. He is the nicest, most caring person I know out here in the field! He is so cool and always positive and hard working! He is my trainer, (he doesn’t know it though) he has been serving for 7months and its his first time being a trainer and District leader since he took the place of Elder Garcia.

Okay, this week has been a tough one. We started working at trying to teach discussions and had a lot of appointments drop out, so we had all this extra time, so we asked if we could go to the Ward Mission Leaders house to meet him and get a list of recent converts. Well, Hermano Monson lives like 2 miles away so that was a pretty long walk and no one has telephones to be able to see if they are home a head of time. Luckily he was home, but didn’t have the list, so that didn’t help to much ha-ha. He told us that every Thursday we have a meeting with the Bishop to discuss how things are going. Well later that night we went to the church for the meeting and waited for an hour but he never showed up.

As far as contacting people daily, sharing a brief part of our message with them and inviting them to church; we average about 25 people each day, but as far as lessons we don’t get a lot of teaching. We find a lot of people who are interested and we teach them 2-3 principles from lesson 1 The Restoration and then make an appointment to come back to teach more but it is usually 5 or 6 day later visit, so that kinda stinks. Some families, we are teaching, are not there when we arrive to teach and everyone lives so far away! So after walking about a mile and a half from one house to another and finding out their not home, or busy, or have some excuse to why we can’t teach them, its pretty discouraging at times.The family, Correa, we do have a baptism for them this week, and other then that I’m doing the best I can!

Yesterday I got really discouraged, when we walked from house to house and nobody could visit, everything was dropping through, it was so hot and humid, I had a head ache from the heat, I was super tired and grumpy! Yeah, I didn´t have a smile yesterday or have a positive attitude and my companion was shocked too. I am working on that and my attitude harder.

Wow Monson leaves soon, HOLY COW that’s awesome! I sure hope Tyler doesn’t feel left out, I miss him and hope he´s doing good.

I don´t think Nicaragua is affected by the economy, there have been riots and protests but that’s about it. Sorry I don´t know much about economy here :/ My health is okay, other than I have been having headaches from being in the sun all day, and it doesn´t seem like I have enough energy, but if anything happens I’m well taken care of here, no worries! The weather here is always the same, its rainy and kinda of cold, or humid and really hot!

Yeah as far as the Spanish language there are days, like in the early morning, when my companion is speaking to me and my brain can´t seem to figure what the heck he´s saying to me! ha-ha But when I’m fully awake and my brain is working I can pretty much understand him. As far as talking about church or the Gospel I can pretty much understand everything other then a few words not in my vocabulary yet.

Thank you so much Mom and Dad for everything! Mom for all your love and support and Dad for all your love and advice! Carly for your goofy little letters! Yeah I definitely need to work on the three pillars a lot more, Dad. Prayer, reading & study, plus writing in my journal.

Love you all!
Elder Buck

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

New Companion and Work Is Good

Hey Family!!

Glad to hear everyone had a good time in Utah. Well, it has been another week in good-old-stinky-hot-Nicaragua! Everything is awesome though and I’m loving it! Okay about all the health stuff, my health is good, sometimes I will get really bad headaches but I think its because I’m in the sun for most of the day, but other then that everything is good. I don’t know how much I weigh but we get fed a ton of food by Hermana Gladis.

Spanish is coming faster then it was before, we have been having a lot of meetings real early in the morning so I haven’t been able to do personal study or language study at our regular time so my Spanish right now is "okay". My goal each day is to memorize thirty words and so far I have been accomplishing this goal so my vocabulary is pretty big.

They had emergency changes to make with companionships, so I am no longer with Elder Garcia who was awesome. We had our differences and I have had to develop patience and self control cuz one time I wanted to punch him in the face! BUT I didn’t....I just walked away into the other room and prayed for help and not to have contention in our companionship. But I will miss Elder Garcia when we were getting along and we were doing an awesome job.

My new companion is Elder Alonso, he is from Guatemala and is really cool! He is quiet, really smart and hard worker, so I’m thinking this is one of those really good companionships. I’m expecting a lot out of us this change. We’re going to do AWESOME! I can tell. Ha-ha He is only 5’3” in height so we look like David and Goliath. We think a lot alike as far as goals we want to accomplish and set, and he helps me a ton understanding things in Spanish. We have only been companions for a day too! Ha-ha.

Right now we have 5 families and baptismal dates for those families set on the 11 of July so I’m really excited. These families are awesome and really interested in the gospel, they all worked last Sunday so they couldn’t go to church but as far as I know they are able to go this Sunday. One Family (its pretty sad) their 3 month old daughter passed away like a month ago and they have this book of her death, with pictures of her dead (which isn’t good, its better to remember them and see them when they were alive) so we taught them the Plan of Salvation. Everyone in the family was crying by the end of the lesson and thanked us, so after that I felt awesome.

I DID RECIEVE THE PACKAGE! I got it last night, so it took about 2-3 weeks to get to me. Thank you for everything, I pray for you all everyday, hope all is well, money is flowing and everyone is happy!

Love,
Elder Buck

Monday, June 15, 2009

My First Trip to the Hospital

Hello to Everyone!

It is good to hear you still have nice weather in Arizona, LUCKY! It is so HOT & HUMID here!. I hope you all have a good time in Utah, have fun and be safe! Wow, Kade you have two puppies now, that’s cool. Hey, congrats Monson on going to the temple! Ah man, the mission is unbelievable; you are going to love it!!!

You are right Mom, we definitely need the members help in our ward! It was good Sunday, we went on splits with members, I was with Alex and a ward member, so it was really awesome to have the members involved. The teaching this week has gone pretty good, however, Elder Garcia never lets me teach lessons, so I have to interrupt and say my piece, I have been trying to get him to let me talk more so we are still working on it. We are teaching a new family, Martinez, they are a pretty sweet family. They have two kids and the dad plays baseball for a living. He plays on Sunday’s so he can’t go to church with us but we will work with him more. Other than that I have not done much this week because it has been one crazy week….

Last Monday, P-day, after I posted my letter to you on email, all the Elder’s went to the church to play basketball, football, and ping-pong. I was feeling hot and sweating like crazy, more than normal, so I went and changed out of gym clothes and into my street clothes and started to play the piano. While I was playing my back started to hurt, so I took off my back pack, then I started to get a pain down my whole left side up into my neck and I was having a hard time breathing. Elder Sugden came and started playing the piano next to me and I told him I wasn’t feeling well. We got up and walked out to the foyer to where the other Elder’s were sitting and I told them I was not feeling good and I was trying to explain to them in Spanish how I was feeling since nobody speaks English. The pain just hit me again, I couldn’t breathe and I collapsed on the couch, my left arm was numb now and all I could think was I was having a heart attack. The Elders were around me trying to figure out what was wrong and one called the Mission Doctor, I couldn’t even breathe to talk to him so he said to call the Mission President. Elder Sugden and another Elder gave me a blessing while the president sent two A.P.’s with the car to pick me up, carry me out to the car and take me to the hospital. Elder Sugden came with us too.

It was hard to breathe and my chest hurt like crazy, we were speeding down the roads, the roads are full of pot holes and every time we hit one, it made the pain worst. The kept telling me to keep breathing and to hold on! I think we made it to the hospital in 10 minutes and it usually takes 25 minutes by taxi. The hospital happened to be the best one in Nicaragua so I was well taken care of. They rushed me into a bed and the doctor kept asking me medical terms in Spanish so I was having a hard time communicating with him and telling him what I was feeling in Spanish. They took some x-rays and they said I had a bubble outside of my lung (infection). They call it “The Devils Grip” down here. I stayed in the hospital overnight, my hero Elder Sugden stayed with me the whole time. The hospital was awesome, the food was awesome, the bed was even awesome, and I loved the stay. Ha-ha. They kept me over night and released me the next day, I was to rest for four days and after resting the doctor said I was better and could go back to teaching later in the week. DO NOT CALL THE MISSION HOME, I AM OKAY NOW!

Love, Elder Buck

Note from Sandra: I looked up “The Devil’s Grip” online and found it is called Bornholm Disease or epidemic pleurodynia. It is a viral disease that is easily spread from person to person, the characteristics include sudden, violent pain in the chest, fever (his excessive sweating) and difficulty breathing. It is treated with pain medicine only. Without complications all symptoms leave within one week. It is common in hot tropical climates and usually affects children, but since McCoy does not have an immunity built up like the adult natives, he will be susceptible to the virus’ and diseases.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Monday, June 8, 2009


Two new converts!
Elder Garcia
What's for dinner? Rice and beans of course!
P-day with Elders at church eating Mexican Pizza for my B-day.
Mutt & Jeff

Hey!!!

Of course I had a good week. Two weeks ago we had 4 baptisms for our district so it was great. It has rained almost every night, comes in and moves out quick but dumps a lot of water so it is really hot, humid and muddy the next day. I drink about a gallon of water a day so I don't get dehydrated.

I did get my package you mailed over 6 weeks ago and everything was still in it. I must be growing still because the rubber boots you sent me do not fit me now, I could not even get my foot into them, but they fit my companion so he took them and gave me a pair of brand new shoes that are too big for him but they fit me perfectly so we are even. He said, "Estos son bonita" which means there are beautiful, so he likes them.

I sent a picture of the food I eat usually every night, rice and beans. The meat is strange because it is dipped in lime juice so it is kind of tangy and the other fried stuff is plantos (unsweetened banana). We do get veggies but it usually tomatoes and avocados which I have a an allergic reaction too because my mouth and throat swells and I talk two octaves lower. Not many desserts or treats so if you want to send me candy that will not melt, I like skittles and starburst.

Our district had changes but I am still with Elder Garcia, but we did get two new Gringos. This week has probably been the hardest for me so far, we have not had any baptism prospects and all of the investigators we were teaching are no longer interested. The natives are interesting to me, he are hard workers physically but mentally and spiritually they are like little children in the way they act, they do not take things very seriously except when it comes to their sort-of Catholic religion. They really put up a fight and scream and yell loudly during Sunday service with loud drums and guitars, it sounds like Gospel Screamo ha-ha. They have their members get on the buses and screech at the top of their lungs, I mean preach, about Jesus, Holy Spirit,and all kinds of stuff that doesn't make sense. The buses have religious pictures and sayings on the side of them too, it is different. They see Christ only as an image not as a true Savior.

The people struggle keeping the commandments to read, pray, repent and it is frustrating because we want them to be happy. I think sometimes the natives are into getting a certain number of baptisms for statistics and do not see investigators as a Child of God. I don't care if we have 9 baptism a week, if the new members are not returning to church, active and trying each day to become closer to Christ, then I'm not doing as good as a missionary. I told my native companion this and he was mad at me for a couple of days, but I guess he understands now because we have been teaching and visiting less active ward members and new converts.

I love what I am doing, my Spanish is improving everyday. I can understand what people are saying except a word or two. Yes I am happy, I love this work and I know the Lord is pleased as long as I do what I'm suppose to do. I love you all, Mom, Dad, Carly, Tanner, Emily, Kendal, Carver, Amanda, Kade, Kallee, Siddalee, and Maisy. It is so awesome you got a new puppy Kade!

Love,
Elder Buck